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How to write a eulogy, guidance from an experienced celebrant in Dorset and Hampshire
Writing a eulogy is an act of love. It is a way of saying, this life mattered, and this is how we remember them. There is no single right way to do it, only the way that feels honest and true to the person you are honouring.

Richard Smart
Dec 28, 20255 min read


Learn how to write wedding vows that sound like you
There is a certain kind of panic that hits couples when someone says, “Are you writing your own vows?” Cue the blank stare, the nervous laugh, and the sudden desire to Google “romantic things to say without sounding like a Hallmark card.”

Richard Smart
Oct 13, 20252 min read


When loss meets loss: navigating death when a partner or loved one has dementia
Losing someone dear is always hard, but when the person you are caring for is living with dementia, grief often takes on new layers.

Richard Smart
Aug 10, 20253 min read


What is a celebrant?
A celebrant is someone who creates and leads non-religious or semi-religious ceremonies that are completely personal to you.

Richard Smart
Jul 13, 20253 min read


Living funerals: celebrating life while we still can
More and more people are choosing to celebrate their lives while they’re still here to enjoy it. A living funeral or celebration of life held before death, is a powerful, moving way to connect with loved ones, reflect on the journey so far, and hear the kind of things we too often leave unsaid until it’s too late.

Richard Smart
Jul 7, 20252 min read


How to choose the right funeral celebrant in Dorset: A caring guide for Poole, Bournemouth and beyond
Losing someone you love is never easy. When it comes to planning a funeral, many families in Dorset feel unsure where to begin.

Richard Smart
Jul 3, 20252 min read


When goodbye never happens: the hidden cost of direct cremation
We’re skipping funerals — but not the grief
Direct cremation now accounts for over a fifth of all funerals in the UK, with more families choosing this stripped-back option. But while the practicalities are taken care of, the cremation carried out, the ashes returned by post, the emotional needs of those left behind are often forgotten.

Richard Smart
Jun 30, 20253 min read


Unveiling SmartlySaid.co.uk - Your go-to Celebrant for unforgettable Weddings and meaningful Funerals in Dorset and Cornwall
Celebrating life's key moments, whether joyous or somber, is essential to our human experience. At Smartly Said, we appreciate the...

Richard Smart
Jun 30, 20254 min read
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